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Old 02-12-2009, 02:16 AM
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Old 05-09-2009, 02:21 AM
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Is a visit to a dominatrix considered cheating. What do you guys think? What do you think your girlfriend/wives would or do think??? If they don't know you have gone or go to a dom what do you think they would do if they found out???
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I dont think so
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Old 05-09-2009, 10:19 AM
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Default Re: Is a visit to a Dominatrix considered Cheating???

Mistress Taylor:

I believe a man is cheating on his wife/gf if she does not give permission to see a Dominatrix.

In an ideal situation, I would like to think that said male brings his wife/gf with. I"ve seen this offered by many Pro's. It allows the couple to explore power exchange together.

It could result in two sub session, with an experienced Domme. Or the Wife/GF might actually enjoy being Dominant, and take over controlling Her man's submissive needs.

BTW. would love to be Your love slave. Think I might have a shot at satisfying/amusing/serving Your Mistress.

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Mistress Taylor:

I believe a man is cheating on his wife/gf if she does not give permission to see a Dominatrix.

In an ideal situation, I would like to think that said male brings his wife/gf with. I"ve seen this offered by many Pro's. It allows the couple to explore power exchange together.

It could result in two sub session, with an experienced Domme. Or the Wife/GF might actually enjoy being Dominant, and take over controlling Her man's submissive needs.

BTW. would love to be Your love slave. Think I might have a shot at satisfying/amusing/serving Your Mistress.

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I don't know if Mistress Taylor is looking for a love slave(and, I saw her first!), but she is always looking for video slaves.
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Old 05-10-2009, 06:45 PM
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I don't consider it cheating as long as the session remains professional at all times. There must be an understanding that there is no intimate relationship between both parties.
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Old 05-20-2009, 05:06 AM
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Chances are it is a secret activity which amounts to cheating. I haven't given it much thought until now.
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This question provoked an amazing, diverse string of responses that both elaborated on and clarified the original question. That said, this male agrees with Blue and others in that camp: it's cheating if the partner thinks it is. After all, if the scene is largely mental and the Domme never once touches the male sexually, he nonetheless visited Her for sexual excitement. The Female partner may feel that a male sharing his deepest secrets with another but not with Her is the ultimate cheat. Others may feel indifferent to this but object strongly to actual, sexual contact. She may feel that the male's best friends already share aspects of him that she doesn't, but this isn't cheating; this is breadth. No Woman is exactly the same, and those who adore or even worship them should show even the Vanillas more respect than usual, not less.
Those who note that tamping down their submissiveness is nearly impossible and self-destructive make an excellent point. It can even ruin the relationship, as the Spouse realizes that Her partner is uncomfortable but not telling her why. If a male has lucked into a healthy, romantic relationship with a vanilla Woman, he can only hope to introduce her to it slowly and gingerly, as others have suggested, or live in silence and hope for the best. Better still, don't formalize the relationship without at least dropping a hint, otherwise the marriage / partnership is based on unsteady ground. Not doomed, but in jeopardy.
For those whose Spouses seem resistant to fetishes, or even hostile, perhaps a gradual approach in which the male is merely solicitous...helpful...unusually obedient in vanilla matters may gradually strengthen the relationship while allowing him to sneakily enjoy the obedience. And if the Female comes to enjoy the male's amazing behavior, She may permit him to tiptoe into a slightly more eroticized direction.
Of course, it's impossible to say for sure. Every Female is unique, and these suggestions may prove much too tame or still too overt. But they are the best this male can offer without knowing the Female in question.
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Old 07-02-2011, 10:29 AM
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Default Re: Is a visit to a Dominatrix considered Cheating???

Where is the problem of visiting a Dominatrix?

Everyone has his/her sexual fantasy. Sometimes i want to control the situation and other times i want to feel dominated, as a slave. It's not incompatible!

But sincerely, i prefer to be dominated :P
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Old 07-02-2011, 05:33 PM
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First, welcome to the forums! It's nice to see a new, active member here. Second, thanks for helping to re-ignite a fascinating thread.
Getting to specifics: this male sees nothing wrong with someone being who they are, whether Domme, sub or switch. However, Mistress Taylor's question wasn't only about what the male wants, but about the Spouse's feelings. If you visited a Dominatrix, would you tell your Spouse? Would She shrug and say, "Have a nice time"? If so, why? If not, why not? If you wouldn't tell your Spouse, doesn't that suggest She would react negatively and thus affirm Mistress Taylor's point? This thread has produced many well thought-out posts arguing positions both ways. Please feel free to elaborate the reasons either way. It will be interesting to hear another opinion on the matter.
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Old 07-14-2011, 03:46 PM
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No its a way of life lol
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Old 07-14-2011, 03:49 PM
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I don't she would like it too much. But she doesn't seem to be able to get in that mode for me. I have tried everything. For me it is really leaving a big void in my life
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Default Re: Is a visit to a Dominatrix considered Cheating???

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It depends on whether the wife/girlfriend has an aversion to these fetishes!
Agreed. The woman should be allowed a chance at fulfilling the need we all share, but if she won't do it, it would seem to be fair grounds for visiting a domme.
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Old 09-07-2011, 03:15 AM
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I agree. A man into BDSM will never stop being into BDSM
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My two cents...I did consider it cheating and had seen several Dommes over a period of several years. My wife did finally find out and I came clean with the details. I was sure it would be deal breaker and this would be a huge issue. Instead my wife became quite fascinated with the whole idea and to make a long story short, she is now one of the best Dommes I've ever seen! She has become very accomplished in domination techniques and is very much into fetishes, much to my great pleasure.
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Yes in my opinion because there is a lying and deceit issue.
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For me physical presence is the cheating line. Phone isn't.
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I dont feel it would be cheating But I have to say Woman have always intriged me I love them Their smell, how soft they are, And I am so submissive, when I worship their bodys, I want to crawl into them. When I see woman in public, I only see them as Femdom. And My mind only thinks of how they could control me, with their Female traits. No it would not be cheating------ It would be heaven.
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It depends on the situation. I know that, as much as i love to dominate and humilate my bf, there are things that he wants that i just don't want to do. If i found out he had been to a Dominatrix without talking to me about it, then i would considering it cheating as it is going behind my back.
However, if i was involved, and maybe even witness to it (either in person or on video) and the whole situation was open, then i would be ok with it. At least i think!
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Well, this is quite a philosophical question. The concept of infidelity has no absolute definition. I mean, in one relationship flirting may be considered to be cheating, while in another relationship even kissing another person may be all right. And in a cuckold relationship, not even intercourse would be actual adultery.

A sexual or romantical relationship is an implicit (or explicit) agreement between two (or more) parties. If one party breaks the terms, it is most likely considered a violation. How the other party wishes to react, is wholly up to themselves.

If I were in a relationship, I would probably assume that the other party would consider it to be a violation of the terms if I were to meet a dominatrix. However, as some people state, their mere knowledge and approval of the act would make it totally legit.

My advice is, speak with your partner if you're unsure, even though your mere inquiry may be considered adultery.
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Eloquent, thoughtful answer, Fascis! Thanks for the post, and welcome to the group. It's nice to have someone who not only speaks in complete sentences (you'd be amazed how many can't be bothered with whole words!) but takes the group seriously. It will be interesting to see future posts. Feel free to peruse the old threads, as there are some interesting discussions that can always use another perspe4ctive. There are also some for entertainment, and even for sci-fi cows (yes, really. Have fun finding them!).
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Eloquent, thoughtful answer, Fascis! Thanks for the post, and welcome to the group. It's nice to have someone who not only speaks in complete sentences (you'd be amazed how many can't be bothered with whole words!) but takes the group seriously. It will be interesting to see future posts. Feel free to peruse the old threads, as there are some interesting discussions that can always use another perspe4ctive. There are also some for entertainment, and even for sci-fi cows (yes, really. Have fun finding them!).
There are also stories to enjoy, and even an arcade. Welcome, and enjoy!
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Welcome! And remember that if there is no thread on a subject of interest, it's perfectly fine to start one -- once the system permits, that is. It takes a certain number of points, so as to discourage spammers from swooping in and creating thread after thread of garbage. It has happened in the past.
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Well, this is quite a philosophical question. The concept of infidelity has no absolute definition. I mean, in one relationship flirting may be considered to be cheating, while in another relationship even kissing another person may be all right. And in a cuckold relationship, not even intercourse would be actual adultery.

A sexual or romantical relationship is an implicit (or explicit) agreement between two (or more) parties. If one party breaks the terms, it is most likely considered a violation. How the other party wishes to react, is wholly up to themselves.

If I were in a relationship, I would probably assume that the other party would consider it to be a violation of the terms if I were to meet a dominatrix. However, as some people state, their mere knowledge and approval of the act would make it totally legit.

My advice is, speak with your partner if you're unsure, even though your mere inquiry may be considered adultery.
Hello and welcome to the forum

This is a touchy question and you gave a nice answer.

This will vary from couple to couple and there is no right or wrong answer. I completely agree that the best route is to discuss things - that is an Art that seems to be dying out amongst many people these days.

Thanks for your thoughts on this.
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Default Re: Is a visit to a Dominatrix considered Cheating???

Bring her with you. Let her decide if your going to be whipped caned of strapped. Mistress will take charge and you will only have to comply. She will have you stripped down right away. I am sure your woman would love to have your broken. The hard on will soon disappear after 10 or 15 hard strokes. Then you will beg and squeal. YOur transformation will be under way.
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