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Old 02-25-2007, 01:44 PM
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Old 02-26-2007, 10:23 AM
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This is something I've been wondering about myself. I'm a voyeur at this point, was tied up by my first serious girlfriend but not so much of anything since then. Current partner isn't into it at all, though I'm working on her through the brilliant "tickle torture" discussion a while back (and she does love to tickle me).

I think she would be upset about it if she found out I did something. I don't know if it would end our relationship, but it would NOT be good. And I would be foolish if I pretended I couldn't see why. It's definitely a sexual fantasy of mine to be teased, wrestled, smothered, beaten, dominated by a gorgeous woman (even more of a fantasy of two or three gorgeous women), and I think fulfilling a sexual fantasy of that kind without her might be cheating. Or maybe not? I mean, it's not cheating when i masturbate about it, so is it cheating if those thing happen and I'm not allowed to orgasm or kiss my mistresses?

Hrm. what do folks think?
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As a married man wo hides his desire/need to serve a dominant female from his wife, i have come to accept that it is cheating. I have also come to the conclusion that it is a necessary part of who i am - just as vital and necessary to my core being as eating, breathing and going to the bathroom. So, because my wife is unwilling to indulge my need to serve (i would gladly serve her if she would let me) - then i feel i have no choice but to serve another Mistress.
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Old 02-26-2007, 12:33 PM
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As a married man wo hides his desire/need to serve a dominant female from his wife, i have come to accept that it is cheating. I have also come to the conclusion that it is a necessary part of who i am - just as vital and necessary to my core being as eating, breathing and going to the bathroom. So, because my wife is unwilling to indulge my need to serve (i would gladly serve her if she would let me) - then i feel i have no choice but to serve another Mistress.
Start by massaging her. Even learn how to do it properly. I don't think that any woman will resist that. Try kissing her feet and work your way up her legs until you are kissing her Ass. Pleasure her orally. The time will come when she'll take control and become your Mistress. It just takes time
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Old 02-26-2007, 12:35 PM
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This is something I've been wondering about myself. I'm a voyeur at this point, was tied up by my first serious girlfriend but not so much of anything since then. Current partner isn't into it at all, though I'm working on her through the brilliant "tickle torture" discussion a while back (and she does love to tickle me).

I think she would be upset about it if she found out I did something. I don't know if it would end our relationship, but it would NOT be good. And I would be foolish if I pretended I couldn't see why. It's definitely a sexual fantasy of mine to be teased, wrestled, smothered, beaten, dominated by a gorgeous woman (even more of a fantasy of two or three gorgeous women), and I think fulfilling a sexual fantasy of that kind without her might be cheating. Or maybe not? I mean, it's not cheating when i masturbate about it, so is it cheating if those thing happen and I'm not allowed to orgasm or kiss my mistresses?

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Old 02-26-2007, 12:36 PM
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Old 02-28-2007, 09:02 AM
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Start by massaging her. Even learn how to do it properly. I don't think that any woman will resist that. Try kissing her feet and work your way up her legs until you are kissing her Ass. Pleasure her orally. The time will come when she'll take control and become your Mistress. It just takes time
See, here's the thing. I do all that already. I know some guys say that and they don't really do it, but really, I do. Plus, being a musician, oral has always been as much fun for me as for my partners (I take pleasure in knocking women unconscious with it). So I dunno... again, thanks to the awesome tickletorture discussion from before, I have some hope. I do love my partner very much, but fear this big desire of mine may come back to bite us (and not in a way I'd like) down the road.
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Old 02-28-2007, 12:03 PM
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Devotion in a relationship is normal. The woman should do the best to satisfy his partner and also the man should do the best. In my eyes this has nothing to do with BDSM.
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Old 02-28-2007, 12:25 PM
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See, here's the thing. I do all that already. I know some guys say that and they don't really do it, but really, I do. Plus, being a musician, oral has always been as much fun for me as for my partners (I take pleasure in knocking women unconscious with it). So I dunno... again, thanks to the awesome tickletorture discussion from before, I have some hope. I do love my partner very much, but fear this big desire of mine may come back to bite us (and not in a way I'd like) down the road.
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Old 02-28-2007, 12:27 PM
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I used to have two camels beside my Avatar- now they've changed into two angels with needles- WHAT ???
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It would depend on the couple's relationship and how open it was. I would say yes ,if you hide something you do with another be it flirting,going out,or D/s games. Of course some may see it as equal to going to a strip club and getting a lap dance or whatever. This is a good question but it isn't all black and white right or wrong
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Those images change at various post count levels...

You just passed 500 posts.

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It would depend on the couple's relationship and how open it was. I would say yes ,if you hide something you do with another be it flirting,going out,or D/s games. Of course some may see it as equal to going to a strip club and getting a lap dance or whatever. This is a good question but it isn't all black and white right or wrong
Well said!

Is flirting cheating?

Going to a club?

Going to a club and getting a lap dance?

It's all subjective. I suppose in a polygamous society, the question would be just silly!
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Old 03-03-2007, 08:59 AM
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You just passed 500 posts.

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Well said!

Is flirting cheating?

Going to a club?

Going to a club and getting a lap dance?

It's all subjective. I suppose in a polygamous society, the question would be just silly!
Thanks, Sockratease, for the wisdom.

The problem is- married or not- Mistress Taylor is too hard to resist!

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Cheating is not the right word, incase your partner is unaware of your visits is it considerd as a very serious betray and she'll not forgive you when she'll find out by herself what you've been doing when she'll give you her back. We're all adult people on this site, I expect that we're all mature enough to realize that the most important thing in a relation is : being honest!!!!
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The idea of "cheating" varies wildly from person to person. Some consider masturbation cheating, others use Slick Willy's idea that sex is only the act of copulation.
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on the other hand, men marry women hoping they never change. So it's a lose-lose situation.

I too believe that it is cheating, but that's a chance most are willing to take to have an outlet for their particular fetishes.
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Esentially, you're giving your body to another woman, so yes, I would say it would be cheating. That's not to say it can't be part of a healthy marriage if the couple are open, honest and comfortable with it.
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The easiest way to determine if it's cheating or not, and I think it's been mentioned in this thread before, is how would you feel if your partner wife/girlfriend went to someone else other than you, behind your back, to fulfill their fetish fantasies ? Would you feel you've been cheated on? If the answer is "yes" then there's your answer.
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The easiest way to determine if it's cheating or not, and I think it's been mentioned in this thread before, is how would you feel if your partner wife/girlfriend went to someone else other than you, behind your back, to fulfill their fetish fantasies ? Would you feel you've been cheated on? If the answer is "yes" then there's your answer.
I know this is a sensitive concept,but do you think that its the same thing by a man and a women.
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I know this is a sensitive concept,but do you think that its the same thing by a man and a women.
What I'm saying is if you do go to a Domme/Mistress, how would you feel if your partner did that same thing to you and went to a guy/Master for the same thing you go for?

I'm not passing judgement here, I just think that's the easiest way to determine for yourself if it's cheating or not.
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Women are USUALLY wired different then men. Sex and anything sex related is emotional for them. By men it can be totally devoid of emotion and be totally sexual. In addition many women are happy to be monogamous and most men find it a challenge. In other words the playing field isn't level.
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Yeah......but still I'm just trying to simplify it. Sure women probably feel differently about sexual things, but putting all that aside. The simplest way to decide for yourself is.........take the male female thing completely out of it. Now....would it bother you if your spouse went to someone else for the exact same thing you go for? Take whatever it is you go for, and think about your spouse doing the same thing.

You can rationalize the differences between the sexes and all of that, but I'm just talking the bottom line. Would it bother you?
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Hell yeah,it would bother me,but for the reasons I explained above.
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Well there's your answer about if it's cheating or not. If she did the same things that you did, you would consider it cheating. That's my point.

But is what you're saying is that it's okay if a guy does it, because he can disconnect from the emotional side of things? Okay then......say that your wife or whoever can disconnect from the emotional side of things and it's purely physical. Then it wouldn't bother you because she isn't getting emotionally involved? She could do whatever you do and it wouldn't bother you and you wouldn't consider it cheating?

I didn't mean to start a debate.....LOL I'm just saying it's pretty black or white to me. Bottom line, just a basic question. Take all the male/female differences out of it. Again.......If your wife/girlfriend, that you loved, did the same thing with a guy, would you consider it cheating? And whatever your answer, then I think it answers the question that this thread is about.
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Here's a twist I'll share in here and only in here. There was, a certain prodomme I would session with. Over the short three years, I would have to say the number of sessions we shared was close to twenty. Then it all stopped, abruptly. Now some of you want to know why did I, ended the relationship, for lack of a better word.
Well, I found out through a third party that my prodomme in this lifestyle was getting married in less than a month. She did not have the courage/heart to tell me so. But still I did find out without really asking for such info.
Part of the reason why I deciced not to session with her anymore wasn't so much that I felt she was going to cheat on her husband by having a session with me or any other clients. NO. Some prodommes in the business are married. While others still having a meaningful relationship outside of this lifestyle. And I have been knowv to still have a session with a prodomme, even if she is married.
The main reason why I decided to end my servitude to my mistress was clearly based on my religious background. I'm a Catholic and on occasion still attend Sunday service. And if there is any other Christian out there in this forum, you kinda know where I'm going with my next statement. Having been an alter boy for well over two years during my youthful years, I've come to read and know the bible. The ninth commandment clearly states that coveting thy neighbor's wife is not allowed. I'm one who doesn't stop thinking about my mistress even when the session is well done and over with. She knew about my belief. Yet as it's been said before, the truth will eventually come out. Hence, I've not had another session with her in well over six months.
Is seeing a dominatrix considered cheating? Yes, and no. Yes, if the wife/partner doesn't know about your private affair. No, if your wife/partner knows about it.
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I'd say it's cheating when she doesn't agree to it. Personally, I wouldn't do because I really love my girl and I'm true since day 1 (that's more than six years ago now). I got some dominatrix fantasies, and I told her about some (T&D and abandoned orgasms) and she is willing to try all stuff that isn't too hard. So I don't have any reason to go to a dominatrix.
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